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🍭Key points: It has been increasingly common for sb to do sth/ that... ......已经越来越普遍了 excel at 表现出色;擅长=have a talent/flair for=be proficient in/at=be excellent at=be highly skilled in at the price of sacrificing most other interests以牺牲大多数其他利益为代价 a necessary evil不得不做之事；迫不得已的事 (你不想做但必须要做的事情) a competitive edge竞争优势 reach adulthood长大成人 adopt a strict tiger parenting style采用严格的老虎育儿方式 top schools and colleges顶尖学校和大学 tend to do sth经常做某事 produce results that justify the time and money invested产生的结果与投入的时间和金钱相称 be more concerned with更关心 long-term effect长期影响；长期效益 Being trained to achieve good grades and win competitions接受训练以取得好成绩和赢得比赛 develop independent thinking and communication skills发展独立思考和沟通技能 a sense of alienation一种疏离感 lower self-esteem自尊心不强;自尊心降低 given考虑到；鉴于 high levels of academic pressure学术压力大 harsh criticism严厉批评 abilities and intelligence能力和智力 result in导致=give rise to=bring about=cause be unworthy of不值得；不相称 In general总的来说=in summary=to sum up=overall demanding one’s children to be nothing but the best at school and elsewhere is not the wisest approach要求自己的孩子在学校和其他地方都是最好的并不是最明智的方法 _ 记好吃的一次火锅🍲