对任何糟糕的人和事，我们第一个想到的常常不是掉头就走，而是浪费无数的时间和精力深陷其中，以致理智完全被淹没。

For any bad person or thing, the first thing that comes to our mind is often not to turn around and leave, but to waste countless time and energy getting stuck in it, so that our rationality is completely submerged.

就像那句话说的：许多伤害本是一次性的，正因你的允许，它才像把锯子不断在你心上拉扯。而紧紧握着那把锯子不放的人，其实是你自己。

As the saying goes, many injuries are meant to be one-time, but it is precisely because of your permission that they are like a saw constantly pulling on your heart. And the person holding onto that saw tightly is actually yourself.

别为打翻的牛奶哭泣，别为无可挽回的烂事纠缠。

Don't cry over spilled milk, don't dwell on irreparable bad things.

对已经发生的坏事，看开点，对没法改变的破事，看淡点。

Be open-minded about the bad things that have already happened, and take things that cannot be changed lightly.

遇到烂人烂事，不要纠缠、立马离场、及时止损，才是最好的选择。

When encountering bad people and bad things, the best choice is not to get entangled, to leave immediately, and to stop losses in a timely manner.

停止在不可理喻的人和事中消耗，将精力放在更重要的事上，是对自己最大的负责。

Stopping the consumption of unreasonable people and things and focusing on more important things is the greatest responsibility to oneself.

人生苦短，不纠缠烂事，是一种态度，更是一种睿智。

Life is short, not dwelling on trivial matters is not only an attitude, but also a wisdom.